Do You "I" or "O"?

This Week's Simple Tip

Let's face it ... this has been an emotionally challenging year for just about everyone. So far, I've been blessed with a safe "pandemic bubble" of family and friends but recognize that is not the case for everyone. I see sadness all around, and try to make it a point to reach out to say hello or lend a hand to those who are shut in or alone. Having learned many great lessons from Dear Abby over the years, I want to share this one with you, asking that we all be mindful of opening our I's to become O's, especially through this challenging time.

Dear Abby, Decades ago, while I was a college student, a friend took the time and interest to help me through a severe bout of depression. She likely saved my life. She had no special training, just a kind heart and a willing ear. At the time, I didn't realize the profound impact she had made. Our lives diverged, and I never heard from her again. Recently, I finally decided to reach out and thank her, but unfortunately, an online search revealed her 10-year-old obituary. From the notes in the guest book, I discovered she had suffered many personal hardships throughout her adult life, which contributed to her early death. Because I was not able to help her as she helped me, I want to pass along two important lessons I learned: (1) Thank people and tell them you care before it is too late, and (2) be willing to lend a hand and an ear to someone in need, because you may be that one person who affects their life. She had a saying I would like to share, which has guided my life: "Just open your 'I' and LIVE becomes LOVE." -- WITH LOVE IN MINNESOTA DEAR WITH LOVE: I'm sorry for the loss of your caring and compassionate friend. I'm glad you took the time to write and share what a meaningful role she had in your life. That she made herself available to listen when you needed it is something more people should do because we live in a stressful society in which many individuals feel lost and alone. And I love her "motto"!

This Week's Focus:

This week, look for opportunities to let others know you are thinking about them, and even helping them out in some way if possible. Don't just LIVE, show some LOVE.